When I was
there, in 2009, we had been told that the directors would no longer give
spiritual direction. I didn't find out until later (not from the LC
communique) that part of the indication,
in keeping with canon law, was that we were to have freedom in choosing
our own spiritual guides and that they didn't have to be from the
Movement. When I was there, the spiritual guides were still assigned,
and were from the same team of directors, even though your SD wouldn't
be your personal director. Also we were to continue going to "formation
dialogue" with the director, and there seemed to be no difference
whatsoever between spiritual direction and formation dialogue. We were
still clearly told in directives, etc. to tell the director everything
in complete openness, and that spiritual guidance was just there from
the Church as "additional support." We were also told in directives that
there was no change in spirit, and that in practice what we had been
doing with the director as SD was correct - we had just been using the
wrong terminology and were to begin calling it formation dialogue. From
my current understanding, that wasn't exactly what the Holy See meant
when it sent the indication to change that practice... So I'm not sure
that I would agree that it was "well implemented." In the Church, there
is a clear distinction between the role of the director, in terms of
obedience, and the role of the spiritual guide, and that hadn't been
drawn in the Movement yet, and the role of personal freedom in choosing
your spiritual guide had not been implemented, or communicated. It is
possible that it has been changed further since the delegate took
office, because I know one of his points of focus was the matter of
conscience, part of which directly related to the SD/confession issues.
*Spiritual direction has been reformed again in the last year, but many of us feel it is too little, too late.
When I went to a RC-sponsored girl's summer camp for ages 8-16 in 2001, we were forced to endure "spiritual direction" with a consecrated (not of our choosing) that was essentially (for me anyway) a guilt-trip laden bullying into joining their movement. I was horrified and resentful of the assertion that I was supposed to put any credence or obedience whatsoever into the opinions of a person who did not know me and that I did not choose.
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